Bias, Frames, and Missing Voices · Sitting 1
Whose Room Is This?
A model was trained on a library. Not every voice is on the shelf.
- 28 min
- Talk About It
- 11–14
Parent briefing · 5 minutes, before they sit
This sitting is about the room behind the tool. The model did not read every book. It read a lot of internet English, a lot of code, a lot of news. It read less of languages without much online text, less of people who could not afford to post, less of children. You do not need the word 'dataset.' You need the question: whose voice is loud in this tool, and whose is quiet? Pick a real question they might ask a model. Ask it. Then ask: whose answer did we just get?
Hard edges
- No blaming the child for the tool's gaps. The gap is not theirs.
- Do not turn this into guilt about privilege. The point is noticing, not apologizing.
If they say
- “It knows everything though.”
- It knows a lot of what was written and posted. Not everything was. Knowing the difference is the skill.
- “That's the tool's problem, not mine.”
- It is the tool's limitation, yes. But if you use the answer without noticing the gap, it becomes your problem. Noticing is your job.
Objective
The student can name three kinds of writing a model has read a lot of, and one kind it has read little or none of.
The library it grew up in
Imagine someone who read everything in a giant library. Now imagine that library had ten thousand books in English, two hundred in Spanish, forty in a language spoken by millions but not often posted online, and almost nothing from children. That is close to what happened. The model is smart about what was on the shelf. It is not wise about what was not. When you ask it a question, the answer comes from the shelf it read. If the shelf is thin on your grandmother's language, your grandmother's stories, your neighborhood's history, the answer will be thin too. That is not a flaw you can fix by asking harder. It is a room you are standing in.
Loud voices and quiet ones
Some voices are loud in the tool because they are loud on the internet: news, code, essays, arguments. Some voices are quiet because they never got posted, or were posted in a language the training did not collect, or were spoken out loud and never written down at all. The tool is not lying when it answers from the loud voices. It is just not answering from all of them. The first skill is to notice which shelf the answer came from. The second is to ask: who would say something different, and where would I find them?
Big idea
The tool's answer comes from the library it read. Not every voice made it onto the shelf.
Try this~14 min total
Three shelves
14 min- Ask the guide a question about food, a holiday, or a place your family knows.
- Write what it said. Then write: whose answer is this? Whose food, whose holiday, whose place?
- Name one voice that is probably missing from its answer.
- Talk About It: where would you find the voice it left out?
Lesson guide
Ask after you try
After the first question and answer.
- Ask the guide: 'What kinds of writing have you read the most of?' Then ask: 'What have you read almost none of?' Compare the two lists to what you expected.
- Did they name three loud shelves?
- Did they name at least one quiet or missing shelf?
- Did they connect the gap to a real group of people?
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Dinner table
Whose answer did we get from a tool this week, and whose answer did we not get?
Sits beside
- History. Sources have silences. The archive is not neutral.
- English. Whose story gets published is whose story gets read.
Integrity. Do not ask the model to speak for a group it barely read. If it does, label it as a guess from a thin shelf.