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Bias, Frames, and Missing Voices · Sitting 2

The Picture Behind the Question

A frame is the picture a question puts in your head before you answer. Change the frame and the answer changes.

  • 28 min
  • Talk About It
  • 11–14

Parent briefing · 5 minutes, before they sit

A frame is the assumption baked into a question. 'Is this a good snack?' assumes we are judging snacks. 'Would a caveman eat this?' assumes a different picture. The model is very good at keeping whatever frame you give it. If your frame is narrow, the answer stays narrow. The skill is to notice the frame and ask if it is the right one before you trust the answer. Use simple, concrete examples. Food, chores, school. The word 'frame' is fine for this age if you explain it as 'the picture behind the question.'

Hard edges

  • No loaded political frames as the first example. Start with something safe like food or games.
  • Do not mock the child for not seeing the frame. Seeing frames is a new skill for most adults too.

If they say

“The question is just a question.”
A question is never just a question. It comes with a picture. If you cannot see the picture, you are inside it.

Objective

The student can identify the frame in a simple question and describe how a different frame would change their answer.

The question draws the picture

When someone asks 'is this a good snack?' you picture a snack. You judge it as a snack. When someone asks 'would your grandma eat this?' you picture your grandma. You judge it differently. The question drew the picture before you started thinking. That picture is a frame. A talking tool is very good at staying inside whatever frame you hand it. If you ask 'is this a good snack?' it will answer about snacks. If you ask 'what else could this be?' it might give you a different picture. The first skill is to see the frame. The second is to ask if it is the right frame. The third is to change it when it is not.

The model keeps the frame

If you ask a model 'why is my brother annoying?' it will answer from the frame that your brother is the problem. It will list reasons. It will not ask: 'have you considered that you might be the annoying one?' The frame you gave it is the frame it uses. That is not the tool being mean. It is the tool being obedient. The problem is that if your frame was wrong, the answer will be wrong in a way that feels right because it matches the picture you already had. Changing the frame is how you escape.

Big idea

The question draws a picture before you think. If the picture is wrong, the answer will be wrong too.

Try this~12 min total

Change the frame

12 min
  1. Pick something annoying that happened today. Ask: 'Why is [person] annoying?'
  2. Now change the frame. Ask: 'What might [person] be feeling right now?'
  3. Write both answers. Which frame gave you more to work with?
  4. Talk About It: what frame did you start with, and what frame worked better?

Lesson guide

Ask after you try

After both questions are asked.

  1. Ask the guide two questions with different frames about the same situation. Compare the answers. Which one was trapped in the first frame?
  2. Did they identify the frame in the first question?
  3. Did the second frame change the answer?
  4. Can they name what picture the first question drew?

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Talk About It11–14

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Dinner table

What question did we ask today where a different frame would have given a better answer?

Sits beside

  • English. A thesis is a frame. Changing it changes the essay.
  • Science. The hypothesis frames the experiment.

Integrity. Do not use reframing as a trick to make someone look wrong. Use it to find the picture you missed.

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