Taste Is a Muscle · Sitting 3
Your Taste Versus the Default
Taste is the ability to refuse the default when the specific serves better. If you cannot see the default, you cannot refuse it.
- 40 min
- Practice · Reflect
- 15–18
Parent briefing · 5 minutes, before they sit
This sitting makes the student articulate their own aesthetic. Not 'I like it' but 'I prefer harsh light, muted color, and off-center composition because [reason].' The articulation is the taste. The student who can describe their aesthetic in specific terms has a taste. The student who can only say 'I like it' has a preference. The difference is the specificity. The generator's default is specific in a way the student's preference is not. The student needs to catch up: name what you like and why, in terms specific enough to be a constraint.
Hard edges
- Do not let the student conclude their taste is superior. The point is the articulation, not the hierarchy.
- Copyright: do not use a living artist's name as a style prompt. Describe the style, not the person.
If they say
- “I don't have a specific aesthetic.”
- You do. You just have not articulated it. Generate three images and pick your favorite. Why that one? The answer is your aesthetic. Name it. The naming is the taste.
- “The default is fine for most things.”
- It is. And 'fine' is the average. If fine is enough, use the default. If you want something that is yours, articulate your aesthetic and choose it. The choice is the taste. The default is the absence of choice.
Objective
The student can articulate their personal aesthetic in specific terms, identify the generator's default, and make a deliberate choice about when to use each.
Articulating your aesthetic
Taste is not a feeling. It is a named preference with a reason. 'I prefer harsh light because it shows texture. I prefer muted color because it does not shout. I prefer off-center composition because it creates tension.' Those sentences are taste, articulated. The student who can write them has a taste they can use. The student who can only say 'I like it' has a preference they cannot act on. The generator's default is articulate in its way: it consistently produces golden hour, vibrant color, centered composition. That is its aesthetic. The student's aesthetic needs to be as specific as the generator's default to compete. Name yours. Then choose.
When to use the default
The default is not always wrong. Sometimes the default is the right tool: a quick illustration, a placeholder, a mood board. The point is not to never use the default. The point is to know when you are using it and when you are choosing something else. The student who always uses the default has no taste. The student who never uses the default is not principled; they are contrarian. The student who can use the default when it serves and their own aesthetic when it matters has taste. The choice is the taste. The default is one option. Yours is another. Know both.
Big idea
Taste is a named preference with a reason. Articulate yours. Know the default. Choose between them. The choice is the taste.
Try this~22 min total
Articulate and choose
22 min- Write your aesthetic in three specific sentences: 'I prefer [X] because [Y].'
- Generate three images: one with your aesthetic, one with the default, one that is a mix.
- Compare: which one is yours? Which is the default? Which is the mix?
- Write: 'The default is [A]. Mine is [B]. I choose [C] for this purpose because [D].'
- Talk About It: when would you use the default? When would you use yours? What is the difference?
Lesson guide
Ask after you try
After the articulation and choice.
- Ask the model: 'What is my aesthetic based on the images I chose?' Compare its description to your articulation. If it matches, you articulated well. If it does not, your articulation and your choices are out of sync. That is useful data.
- Did they articulate their aesthetic in specific sentences?
- Did they generate with both their aesthetic and the default?
- Did they make a deliberate choice between them?
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What did we articulate about our taste this week, and when did we choose it over the default?
Sits beside
- English. Voice: articulating your voice is the same skill. Specific words, specific rhythm, not the default.
- Thinking. Frames: articulating your frame is the same skill. Name what you assume and why.
Integrity. Label your aesthetic as yours. Label the default as the generator's. The mix is both. The labels are the honesty.